Frequently Asked Questions

  1. How are the gatherings different from other events or dating apps?
    Unlike large mixers or endless swiping, our gatherings are intimate, host-guided, and thoughtfully curated. You don’t have to chase connection — we create the conditions for it.

  2. Do you curate one-on-one matches?
    Our core offering is group events. Most connections unfold naturally in community. For those who prefer a little extra support or are in a city where we are not yet holding events, we offer optional warm introductions — only if both people are interested.

  3. Who can request a spot?
    Anyone seeking authentic connection. We welcome people who are open, kind, and curious — whether you’re hoping for friendship, romance, or simply to meet others who value real connection.

  4. Why do I need to request a spot?
    Every Friending Spaces gathering is intentionally curated. Requesting a spot lets us place you in the right group so the mix feels balanced and comfortable. Once you’ve signed up, you’ll be invited to gatherings that are a fit for you.

  5. Can I bring a friend?

    Yes! If you’d like to bring a friend, they’ll just need to request a spot too. Since every gathering is curated, it’s a bit like a dinner party — the host needs to know who’s coming (and their preferences) so the table feels balanced and comfortable for everyone.

  6. How do you make the gatherings feel safe and supportive?
    Every event is host-led, with clear guidelines that encourage respect, openness, and kindness. We design each gathering to feel welcoming and comfortable, so you can relax and focus on connecting.

  7. What does it cost to attend?
    Gatherings typically range from $30–$75 per person, depending on the format and location. Pricing reflects the care, curation, and hosting that go into each experience. We keep gatherings accessible while valuing the quality and intention behind each one.

  8. How many people are usually at a gathering?
    Most gatherings bring together 15–25 people — small enough to feel intimate, large enough for variety and flow.

  9. How long are the gatherings?
    Most events run 90 minutes to two hours — long enough for real conversations, but designed to fit into busy lives.

  10. What should I expect at my first gathering?
    Each event begins with a warm welcome from a host who sets the tone and guides the flow. Gatherings are a mix of light, host-guided activities and open mingling, giving you the structure to spark conversation and the freedom to connect naturally. 

  11. My city isn’t listed — can I still join?
    Yes! Select “Other” in the form and add your city. If you’d like to see Friending Spaces in your area, email us at friendingspaces@gmail.com and we’ll keep you posted as we expand.